Find What You Love and Let It Kill You

There’s a beautiful piece of writing, by the pianist James Rhodes, which after reading several times I’m only now beginning to truly appreciate.

It’s a heartfelt request to forego at least some of the trite habitual activities that inhabit part of our days. He reminds us to recall our childhood dreams or adult aspirations, kick aside the inertia (fear) of getting started and steadfastly carve out the time to pursue, struggle and suffer for a goal.

James Rhodes writes, “We seem to have evolved into a society of mourned and misplaced creativity. A world where people have simply surrendered to (or been beaten into submission by) the sleepwalk of work, domesticity, mortgage repayments, junk food, junk TV, junk everything, angry ex-wives, ADHD kids and the lure of eating chicken from a bucket while emailing clients at 8pm on a weekend.”

Later in his thoughtful article, Rhodes makes an argument for us to consider going after our dreams.

And then he tells us that the pursuit will likely be ridiculously difficult and time consuming. Will be exceedingly frustrating and in the end may only result in the internal satisfaction of doing something you couldn’t do before. And yet, he suggests that alone is often a sufficiently small miracle and satisfaction enough.

In the case of James Rhodes, when after ten years of not playing the piano, he left his corporate job and spent the next five years with no income, practicing six hours a day; and in the process lost his wife, 35 pounds and spent nine months in a mental institution.

Was it worth it? He says it was for him. Have a listen to him playing the piano.

A caveat. By no means am I advocating anyone committing herself or himself to a life of ruin. But at the same time, the article at least for me, is a reminder that we should embolden ourselves to at least consider chasing down and running to ground an abandoned dream.

There’s something romantic and appealing in that quest.

You can read the article by James Rhodes here. Print it out like I did and keep it in your wallet or posted on your bathroom mirror. Let it be a great reminder to reach further towards what calls us – whether our loves, our work, our art. Whether that’s family, career or something else.

It’s easy to lose yourself in the day-to-day. The mind-numbing, never ceasing focus of “keeping the wheels” on a job. Doing more with less. Going with the flow. Grinding through uninspired.

Maybe we need to take some inspiration from the unorthodox. The unreasonable ones. The ones like James Rhodes wrenching themselves into a new form. The people described by in the Apple ad “Here’s to the Crazy Ones.

And that’s what I think is meant by the term, “Find what you love and let it kill you.” Commit to doing great work, and invest your life force.

Lots of people have done it, and given us these lessons along the way.

a) The Benefit of Doing

George Bernard Shaw wrote, “A life spent making mistakes is not only more honorable, but more useful than a life spent doing nothing.” Good advice from a Nobel prize winner who’s plays continue to be performed more than 100 years after having been written.

Comedian and author Ruby Wax wasn’t afraid of doing. She put together a comedy show called Losing It, which she started out performing for small audiences within mental institutions. Eventually she took it on the road, and then invited doctors to attend so they could help audience members who needed mental help.

Ruby Wax suffered from severe depression herself, and wanted to better understand why. A doctor told her it’d be too difficult for her to understand, so Ms. Wax enrolled in Oxford University and got a Master’s on the topic of neuroplasticity. It was this knowledge that she humorously credits with helping her manage her life.

b) Get Comfortable With Discomfort

No explanation needed.

c) Art for Art’s Sake

Some people are overly focused on an end result. Vincent van Gogh painted over 800 paintings in his lifetime, and although he tried to sell sell sell… he only sold a SINGLE painting during his lifetime.

His work was so underappreciated, that a painting van Gogh gave to a physician in lieu of payment, was used by the doctor to cover a hole in the roof of a chicken coop. Even the work of children typically makes it to exhibit on the refrigerator.

d) Borrow & Steal

John Cleese, the beloved British writer, comedian and producer encourages those involved in a creative pursuits (each of us) to start out by imitating those you admire. Cleese says, it’s how to best learn your craft, and how to find your own unique voice.

e) Believe in Yourself

Despite his intense passion, van Gogh wrote forlornly to his brother Theo, “A great fire burns within me, but no one stops to warm themselves at it, and passers-by only see a wisp of smoke.

f) Creative Work Doesn’t Require Great Funding

The artist Robert Rauschenberg lived in New York City on Fulton Street in 1953, and obsessed himself with making art. Some days he lived on fifteen to twenty-five cents a day. There was no money to buy art supplies, so Rauschenberg would walk the neighborhood streets searching for whatever trash he could utilize as art.

One day, without money to buy blank canvas, Rauschenberg found an old quilt that had been thrown-out. He not only used it as a canvas, but also decided to utilize other materials. That led to his practice of combining a variety of found objects and materials into works he called “Combines,” and a new form of art evolved.

I wanted something other than what I could make myself and I wanted to use the surprise and the collectiveness and the generosity of finding surprises. And if it wasn’t a surprise at first, by the time I got through with it, it was. ” – Robert Rauschenberg

g) Creativity Takes Courage

Henri Matisse said exactly that, “Creativity takes courage.

h) Persistence Matters

From what I can tell, pretty much everyone who’s succeeded has overcome “failure.”

Walt Disney was fired at 22 for not being creative enough and one of his first ventures went bankrupt.

Elon Musk invested his entire $200 million fortune and was on the very edge of bankruptcy before SpaceX and Tesla Motors began to slowly get traction and turn-around.

Henry Ford failed at the first three automotive companies he’d founded, before starting a fourth time with Ford Motor Company.

You almost can fill in the blanks with any successful person. <insert name> failed at <insert failure> before succeeding with <insert success>.

i) Reinvent

Creative people form themselves through the cauldron of passion and practice, and once successful, they typically continue to reinvent out of bravery or lunacy or both.

Although Robert Rauschenberg lived for a time on fifteen cents a day, eventually his work was critically recognized and his work was highly sought (and highly valued). Yet in 1964, when Rauschenberg won the Gran Premio award in Venice, he called his assistant back in New York and said to destroy all of his silkscreens so that he wouldn’t repeat himself. Such was his commitment to continually search for new artistic frontiers.

“To be an artist you have to give up everything, including the desire to be a good artist.” -Jasper Johns

j) Enjoy The Journey

It’s a Taoist saying. It’s a Chinese proverb. And Steve Jobs popularized the phrase in our time.

We’re here for the briefest of time. We’re each going from our own point A to point Z – with peaks and valleys, stops and starts – along the way.

Create. Be kind. Be courageous. Love. Enjoy. It’s what makes us human.

I love you.

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Find What You Love and Let It Kill You

There’s a lot of uncertainty about the future of American jobs. And it’s understandable. The highly respected research firm Gartner published a report stating that 30% of the current jobs will be eliminated by 2025. And for those of us thinking that applies to jobs like tollbooth attendants, Gartner made a point of noting, “white collar jobs are certainly not immune.”

So, yea… people are nervous.

Robots, neural nets, machine learning, artificial intelligence, autonomous vehicles, package delivery drones and the Internet of Things all working together with “big data” analytics to outperform whatever we may be doing for a living. And the Internet of Things means sensors embedded in everything (heck, probably even sensors inside other sensors).

I for one, have good reason to be nervous. Harking way back to the earliest days when I bought a Mac in 1984, and personal computers were basically the equivalent of a 4 month old baby in diapers – I couldn’t even beat the game “ChessMaster 2000” – and on the easiest level no less. The chess game had this highly advanced (cheesy robotic) speech emulator that would announce “CHECKMATE” after it’s final move of every single game I played.

It’s a distant memory, but I recall the feeling of machine intelligence inexorably overtaking human capability. Actually, that’s a wild exaggeration, but the ChessMaster 2000 did convey a tone of smugness each time it announced its win.

Looking at where technology is today, it’s hard to predict how quickly this stuff is advancing. Today I bought a bottle of water from a vending machine, but out dropped a Coca-Cola. Was it a mistake? Or a machine conspiring to shorten my life.

So where do we go to get answers on successfully navigating our futures within this rapidly evolving new world? And what exactly are the odds of successfully competing alongside these smart androids.

Like you, I’ve learned from some very smart people in my life – including parents, teachers, bosses and friends.  And after some deep thinking, it struck me like a bolt of lightening what they all had in common. They were all humans.

Not wanting to limit myself to good ol’ living sapiens, I went straight to the wisest sources I could find – robots.

Here then are some lessons from The World’s Most Famous Robots on successfully navigating your future and the odds of doing so.

A) K.I.T.T.: Knight Rider

“It is essential to your survival that you calm yourself and complete this task.”

K.I.T.T. is giving two very important lessons here; both of which will greatly contribute to your having a successful career. Basically to keep cool and complete your work.

That’s good advice, especially from a talking car. And while keeping emotionally calm is easy for a robot, a lot of people find this to be a challenge at times. Yet experience shows us that it’s often difficult to make good rational decisions when emotions get the better of us. Keep your RPMs low.

B) Optimus Prime

“Fate rarely calls upon us at a moment of our choosing.”

Take it from a robot that transforms from a semi-truck, OP is right on the money here. We have to be ready to seize our destiny when opportunity or challenge presents itself.

C) T-800: Terminator

“I’ll be back!”

Every person is going to have their share of successes and failures. So commit right now to being tenacious and reliable in your pursuits. Remember, Arnold didn’t give up as the Terminator.

Repeat the words “I’ll be back” as self-encouragement using an Austrian accent.

D) HAL 9000: 2001 A Space Odyssey

“I am putting myself to the fullest possible use, which is all I think that any conscious entity can ever hope to do.”

HAL wasn’t even really a robot, but more like a supercomputer that spied on everybody and ran the entire spaceship.

At some point, HAL 9000 got a little big for his britches (computer talk) and started taking over control of the spaceship. But HAL nonetheless doles out some excellent wisdom in this quote. Basically, he’s saying “be all you can be.”

Plus he’s watching you and knows if you’re trying hard enough.

E) Robocop: Robocop

“Serve the public trust, protect the innocent, uphold the law.”

Enough said!

F) The Robot: Lost in Space

“He who chickens and runs away will chicken out another day.”

Be courageous! There will always be doubt and uncertainty.  Be bold. Be confident. And those habits get strengthened with repeated use. Also, let me point out that this is the only rhyming I found from any robot.

G) Bishop: Aliens

“Not bad for a… human.”

Keep a sense of humor. Bishop was a loyal friend who kept his head even when his head was severed off by an Alien attack.

H) DATA: Star Trek

“In the event of a water landing, I have been designed to serve as a flotation device.”

Be adaptable. What’s more, be willing to do some things below your capability at times. DATA was a super rational and intelligent robot, yet he was happy to act as a foam pool noodle if necessary.

I) TARS: Interstellar

“Absolute honesty isn’t always the most diplomatic nor the safest form of communication with emotional beings.”

How do I look? What do you think? Do you like the new recipe I tried? Sometimes a little care and kindness in responding goes a long way towards bolstering and supporting another person.

TARS isn’t advocating lying and deception, but rather recognizing the value in maintaining civility and consideration for each other.

J) C-3PO: Star Wars

“Sir, the possibility of successfully navigating an asteroid field is approximately 3,720 to 1.”

I’d wanted to better understand the odds of successfully navigating our futures within this rapidly unfolding new future world. And based on what 3-CPO said about navigating an asteroid field – I decided to take the final lesson on probabilities from a human.

Replying back to C-3PO, the inimitable Han Solo said…

“ Never tell me the odds.”

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Tom loves building meaningful businesses and technology (with people who care). Follow him on LinkedIn. Reach him at tomtriumph.com or on Twitter @thomastriumph

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